Of life.

People experience life differently.

People can learn from the experience variety too.

When people share their experience among them, the sharer can't expect the receiver to follow what are shared. The receiver too, can't just follow what are shared.

There are aspects to be looked at.

The experience events may be similar, yet, the time, place, people involved or dealt with, are not exactly the same.

Thus, one still needs to adapt to own's situation and condition.

The values, norms, beliefs one holds also are different.

These values, norms and beliefs have major impact on how people experience things and how people view it.

The negativity and positivity of experiencing things, once again, depends on personal values and views.

Some people may see staying at home as something negative like being prisoned.
Some people see it as something positive  that these people who stay home are patient, kind by not being overly socializing... #hahaha

Thus, stop being judgemental.

Stop thinking too much.

Stop comparing ourselves to others.

:)